...much ado about nothing...

How many of you can still remember the song; “Let’s talk about sex baby, let’s talk about you and me, let’s talk about all the good things and the bad things …” LOL Sex being the topic at hand here. I couldn’t help but notice that in ¾ of the conversations or cliques I find myself in, tend to talk about it ¾ of the time, all the time. Not that I’m judging or complaining about anything. Coz yes, I tend to make my quirky comments too sometimes. But not ALL THE TIME!!

The thing that brought upon this topic hehe was the fact that I’ve been celibate for quite some time now. And look, there’s nothing wrong with me. I’m more alive than ever and kicking. Now my cousin comes and tells me, but “Ya it can’t be a conscious decision. Because everybody MUST have sex!” Turning it into a whole issue… What is so wrong in not doing it? And most importantly, what is so wrong in choosing not to do so for a brief or long period of time?

Let me paint a picture quick. I had a messy break up October 2010. I decided to rid myself of all toxins and bad memories, as well as intimate moments with Mr X. Gave myself a 6 months cleansing period before I want any sexual encounters. And it’s month 7 now, and I’m doing all good. Yes there’s that one time of the month when you go crazy and want to have mad bunny sex, but it comes and goes.

Does that make me lame? Or not one of the crowd? On the contrary.. I think it makes me extraordinary. J Why? It’s simple. I did not conform to societies rules and lame norms, and, it just makes the whole thing so much better. Like savouring a good wine. Why must I throw my cat around for everyone to play with? If I do find Mr Worthy, and tell him about it, we can have a laugh and eventually everything will happen as it should. Quite frankly I’m in no rush. Besides, there are so many other things I can invest all my energy into.  But now you get those who say,  “Ya but everyone has needs, or it is part of who we as humans are…” etc etc.. Yes I get all that, but don’t you think needs differ from person to person? That maybe my needs are much more personal than sum bumping and grinding? Don’t get me wrong.. I’m not against sex LOL not at all. But my koekie klop nie nou nie. And I’m just taking a break… for now that is.

Moral of the story, each unto his own.