Game of Thrones

Whenever I think of this Series, I cant seem to stop smiling. Hehe. It is of epic proportions! (no pun intended of course)

I cant remember when last I was this excited for something on tele. Oh wait, I can. Lord of The Rings was probably the last thing. I remember getting my brother, to buy all the books. Because the movies were just taking too long :D

Everyone is saying this is the same as Spartacus . I beg to differ. Yes it has the same epic elements. The drama, seduction, betrayal, barbarism, action etc. But what makes Game of Thrones so jizz worthy is the fact that you can never say whats going to happen. You know when you think, this is it, this guy is going to do that, then BAM! It hits you right in the face LOL. Nothing is ever as it seems in the kingdoms. So as the titles so rightfully says, You win or You die :) Fitting don't you think?

Basically, is about the battle for power between the 7 Kingdoms in Westeros. Each unique with their own standards, traditions and of course people. Don't worry, I wont say anything else. Because it is just so damn brilliant that yo have to go and watch for yourself!!

" What we have here is the successful pairing of an acclaimed collection of fantasy books with a television series that illuminates and expands what’s on the page. " - Hollywood Reporter

" A great and thundering series of political and psychological intrigue bristling with vivid characters, cross-hatched with tantalizing plot lines and seasoned with a splash of fantasy." - LA Times

I couldn't have said it any better. I don't want to spoil so I wont say anything further. But do me and yourselves a favour and WATCH IT DAMMIT! hehehehe For those of you in South Africa, it premiered last night on MNET at 21:30. Do not miss it or you will miss out hehehehe.

Frenifits?

After watching the much anticipated ultimate chick flick, "Friends with Benefits", starring Justin Timberlake and the oh so sultry Mila Kunis, I couldn't help myself but write something about this Taboo subject. 

So many things to say LOL. I had an interesting discussion with one of my friends the other day. Where he tried to convince me that there's no feelings between him and his "fcuk buddy".  I just lol'd  and told him he is in for a ginormous surprise. Why? Well firstly, because I am a female. And I know how we think and feel. Anyone who tells me otherwise, lives in Egypt! For they are swimming in deNIAL river! m0ahahahahahaha

Anyhooo, the point that I'm trying to make is, that its NEVER just Friends with Benefits. Whether your're intimate, or just snogging. Same thing applies. If its going on for longer than 3weeks, feelings will develope. TRUST ME! You start to care about that certain person more, you think about him/her more, infact, subconciously its all you think about. And you're so caring that whichever decision you make, that person's feelings will always be taken into consideration first. And before you know it, it hits you in the face! You are falling for said person. And the fact that he/she is seeing someone else, or even mentions someone else, you go rampant.

See, you fool yourself by thinking, "ag its only once." Then it evolves into a weekly thing, and then what happens? He/She's the first person you call when somethings wrong. The first person you share something hectic with. The first person you phone to change your flat. All these things should be signs. But us being us, ignores it. Because we elude ourselves into thinking that theres nothing. And we can be badass and do the no strings attach thing. Have I got news for you. Get out while you can people! Unless of course, you want to be right there. With no plans to move forward. And to forever be that booty call or random girl. Then by all means.. Enjoy it :)

What people tend to forget is, intimacy is sacred. And dont tell me "but what about a one night stand". Thats something totally different. Once you share that bond with that someone more than once, things change. People change. My mom always says, "Sex changes everything!" Even in the movie its proven LOL Don't fool yourself into thinking its just a movie. Things like that never happen in real life. But if I'm not mistaken, are'nt most movies and books based on real life events? Experiences? So dont be a noob and play the ignorant card. I implore you...

Just to clarify, there's nothing wrong with the occasional fling. With a buddy or an acquittance. But the moment the game turns into something regular, i.e longer than 3months.... your're going to be stuck in that. And the everyone knows, once your're in the friendzone, you can never escape haha. But like I said, each unto his own. If you like it, then go for it. But if you're looking for something more permanent and lasting, then this is not for you. And dont think that he/she is going to change, and see you for who you truly are. Because any person who does not want to get with you without sex, is not going to get with you with sex. If that makes sense LOL

In conlusion, I want to say that as contradictory as it may sound, doing it once is fine. A one night stand. Nothing wrong with that. Because then you know that's all there is to it, but the moment you agree to FWB, you're screwed! (no pun intended... or wait. ... pun intended! bwahhahahaah)  The moment it continues, you can bet your ass, you guys will indirectly be in a relationship LOL. And I would'nt want to burn the bridge to friendship shore all because of some nuki.. Dont you think?

 Lesson of the day: Avoid the awkwardness and get a stranger to bang! mwahahahaa and not a homie!

*FWB - Friends with Benefits

#truestory ....

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

•Be more kind than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.
• Of all the things you wear, your expression is the most important.
• A sharp tongue can cut your own throat.
• If you want your dreams to come true, you must not oversleep.
• The best vitamin for making friends…B1.
• The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.
• The heaviest thing you can carry is a grudge.
• One thing you can give and still keep is your word.
• You lie the loudest when you lie to yourself.
• If you lack the courage to start, you have already finished.
• Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.
• Sometimes we are so caught up in who’s right and who’s wrong that we forget what is right and wrong.
• One thing you can’t recycle is wasted time.
• Your mind is like a parachute, it functions only when open.
• Life is too short to wake up with regrets.
• Believe everything happens for a reason.
• The pursuit of happiness is the chase of a lifetime! It is never too late to become what you might have been.

* my CReed *

I have come to the frightening conclusion that I am the decisive element. It is my personal approach that creates the climate. It is my daily mood that makes the weather. I possess trenmendous power to make life miserable or joyous. I can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration. I can humiliate or humor, hurt or heel. In all situations, It is my response that decides whether a crisis is escalated or de - escalated, and a person is humanized or dehumanized.

use it, dont use it ;)

dont you just love engrish?

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I bet this cookie will never leave you bwahahaahaha

totaLLy addicted to NAIL POLISH :P

Ever since I could remember I have been a nail polish addict!! And no! Not the sniffing kind bwahahahaha. I have about every colour that you can think of. My mom says, our nails have become a fashion accessory because lately your nails have to suit your outfit. I couldn't agree more. At the moment I'm wearing Grey tights, a black top and silver jewelry. And yes you guessed it, Grey nails!! heehee 

I think what makes it so fun is seeing the end result. Because people don't take into account that our skin colour plays a huge part heehee. Stupid I know. But nonetheless FUN :P

I love fooling around with different textures and colours. And even styles. As you can see below:

LOL dont worry. I wouldn't go and put all the colours on one hand heehee. That's just for when I cant seem to make up my mind, then I will send a piccy to my friends and then they decide heehee.

Where brands are concerned I prefer RIMMEL :) Their nail-polish lasts the longest and doesn't get all sticky and thick after a while. 

 

My ultimate dream is to perhaps oneday develope my own brand and style heehehe. But for now, I'm going to have fun and accessorize those nails :P

true story...

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I'm lying here in my bed. With mixed emotions. Feeling so elated...something I haven't felt in a long time. But yet I feel sad at the same time. For the one person I want to share my happiness with, is still upset with me.. I don't even know why anymore :( kinda heart sore don't you think?

Today I can rightfully say... I miss my friend!! We've been bffs for 9years. If not more. I don't know what went wrong. But apparently I broke us. *tear. I hope that wherever she is though, that life is treating her good. I wish she could share in my happiness and still could be part of my life. But I suppose there was a reason we "broke" up.

I wish I could cast everything aside and just speak to her. Tell her of my trials over the past year. Tell her that I made it. I survived that horrible ordeal. And that I'm ecstatic for the future. But what if she's still hurting? What if she's not ready yet. Wouldn't it be selfish of me? Obviously things won't go back to normal. Coz its been broken for so long. But what if? Just what if the feelings mutual? Wouldn't that be great?

Aaargh! I hate feeling so dumb! I hope she knows that I still care about her. That I wish things could have been different. That I still think about her and still cherished all our mad moments together! And that I would like to have her by my side once more. 


What's the point of happiness if you can't share it.. Right?

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