Doesn't everyone just want someone?.......
There is so much outside pressure and personal yearning to find someone. A person you can hold, someone you can't get enough of, someone you enjoy spending time with. Someone you get along with so much you think they must be nothing but an amazing extension of your own being, but at the same time they're someone totally different and amazing, so much so you can't get enough of them. A person who you can spend all day hanging out with, and after you say good bye their image is imprinted in your mind all night, where you wake up in the morning and cant wait to hear from them or see them again (yes, I felt this way once). I think maybe everyone's got someone, it's just a matter of whether or not they find that particular person and how soon.
Right??.... but what if? What if you're fine on your own? Is it a crime?
Seriously, society and its norms... eish, how depro! What’s so wrong in fixing myself before I allow others in? I want to be sorted on my own, get rid of all the baggage (if I have of course LOL) before I introduce some guy into this little world of mine. And then, some folk still look at me all weird, like I'm on cheap crack ,haha, when I tell them I'm awesome on my own haha. And have yet to meet Mr Right. What’s so wrong with that? Don’t you just hate it when your family or even friends tell you, “ ooh you're getting old, its time to make a plan. When is the boyfriend/girlfriend coming along?” Shouldn’t it be up to you? Why is it their problem?
Here’s something a very wise friend taught me:
A couple, is 2 things. 1+1 = 2 right? Not 0.5 + 1.
Two whole things make up a couple. So the way I see it, you cant have one fully functioned person in a relationship only. With the other one being “broken” or with baggage. You need 2. TWEE. TRES. Nii whole things. Irrespective of the fact that some people say “ Ya but maybe I can fix him, or he is my savior, he will fix me.” Sorry but it doesn’t work that way! Trust me, I've been the “ I can fix him” girl. Initially it all catches up to you. Call me what you wish, a hater, perfectionist or even a cynic. The fact of the matter is, it should be your business and yours alone whether or not you want someone in your life. PERIOD! (no pun intended) So here's to all the happy single folk out there. Screw the rest! Like Kesha sings “We R who we R” (^___^)
As for me, say la vie → “la vie” bwahahahahahaha
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